Our EXAMPLESHIP creates our legacy

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I’m teaching Colton before he’s 2 about 10X Mindset. This kid is OBSESSED so I doubt he’ll ever be average. #beobsessedorbeaverage #10x (Grant Cardone’s book The 10X Rule)

People question if I’m legit all the time. They say “If you really made $20M+ then why are you still building and working??”

I tell them I’ve barely even started to scratch the surface of my potential. And my mission is bigger than just me. And I tell them that if I got lazy now and slowed down, I’d be teaching my little kids the wrong lessons of work ethicambition, and going for it in life.  I want them to find their passion and get attention on it. Build their empires on it. #buildinganempire

Money is only a part of the overall picture. Net worth is just a measuring stick for how much value you’ve brought to the marketplace. IMPACT IS EVERYTHING. I want to make the world a better place. I want to teach my kids to do the same.

Let’s all know and remember … our AMBITION sets the tone for those around us. The greatest gift we can give our kids is not monetary inheritance. It’s mindset and attitude and ambition and work ethic.

If we are lazy, if we are not going for it with urgency each day CONSISTENTLY, not only do we not accomplish big goals and create big success for ourselves, but our playing small adversely affects everyone we care about. Our EXAMPLESHIP creates our legacy … good or bad, big or small. You can’t tell your kids they can accomplish anything they want in life while you’re playing small and not accomplishing much. They will look at you as either a hypocrite or as someone just blowing hot air that they don’t even think you believe yourself.

Many parents think spending tons of time with their kids is most important. I feel that a balance is crucial — your kids need to see you hustling and winning, and having SOME time when you can just chill with them. But it is GOOD FOR THEM to miss you, and see that you are doing important things in life. That teaches them ambition, purpose, and real life skills. Yes, kids spell LOVE as T-I-M-E.  I totally agree. They want you there a lot, but they NEED you to go be a winner example for them as well. Again, it’s a balancing act.

So I choose the 10X mindset. I am building empires with people, impacting lives all over the world, helping all those people become heroes and great examples for their kids. My three boys will know their Dad as someone who had impact. Yes, I made crazy amounts of money as well. But it’s the impact they witnessed that will serve them well in their futures.

Go 10X your life. Do it for you, do it for your family, do it to leave your mark.

About the Author Brian Carruthers

Brian Carruthers has helped thousands of business associates to become successful business owners and get out of the corporate world rat-race, and begin to spend real time with their families and doing the things that are really important to them. Brian is one of the top trainers in the network marketing industry and actually does what he teaches.

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